Mark, if you're using the Fishidy website, you'll notice a flag icon at the top of your screen. Click that, and you'll be taken to your notifications. ...more You should then see a request from your buddy. Click "accept" and then you both will be following each others activity. Similarly, if you're using the Fishidy app, open your main slide out menu, and you'll see the same flag icon at the top. Same process there as well. Give that a try and let us know if you're still having trouble.